What does Thirsty Thurday have to do with Love and Marriage ?

Only the Onion can cut to the bone like this,

SBF's Ignore Beyaki, Watch This Quick

It's the First Sunday and today we're talking about what's goin on around us. When Black Women Talk - Black Men Should Listen more sincerely if they want a Mate; instead of a date. Black Women in their 20's, 30's and some even older are experiencing the worst side of being professional, and having standards - Being ALONE.

Recently Comic and Commentator Steve Harvey wrote a book on relationships. According to those in the know, like our friend Bria, much of what he says is true. Steve has a point about Beautiful Blackwomen. SBL's need to look UP instead of Across. too often we look at the pool we swim in; instead of the whole beach. Black Ladies take it from me, there are men out there who will treat you right, and Marry You. you just need to stop looking in the wrong places. Open Up Your Options and Toss That list. it's not going to help you. Open Yourself Up for More Possiblities. set some guidelines and get in the game.

Steve says that men want to know what you WILL Accept; and expect - rather than what you want. that really cuts through the butter. imagine if everywoman knew this at 13 years old. talk about a drastically different world.

Steve Harvey's Relationship Rules

How can it even be realistic that White Women get married at Twice the Rate of Black Women; especially Professional Black Women ?

Trust Me Sista Becky (apologies to My White Ladies, but Becky is the name most folks use commonly to associate with you all - no offense intended), that's why you get the shifty eye in the checkout line when you step up there with your  frozen pizza and rollers in your hair; and your muffintop rollin out; next to the Sister who has taken all she has to try to make herself look like a million dollar designer doll; just to pick up some Skim Milk.

Sisters, it's a very ugly feeling knowing you are beautiful and smart, yet a man will choose Becky instead of you; because he thinks you are another Beyaki.  Men You Need To Think A Little More before you Dismiss a Beautiful Black Woman; or to think that you can corral us in a herd, like horses waiting for a ride. too many of us are bound to the past pain from parental mistakes, early relationship crisis and the drag of day to day stress. time can heal if you allow it to act as a lesson, instead of embittering your heart. Open up your doors to new and fresh possibilities. accept that change and variety, are the spices of life.

Believe me, after two marriages; I ought to know. this marriage is built on more years of dating then slowly deciding. when he felt it was time to get married, He Popped the question. I had to decide if I was ready to make that commitment. he knew that he wanted a good women. I had doubts that he could and would make that same commitment towards me. I turned him down the first few times he asked. sure I had options, and I made sure he recognized it, Everyday.

my options were not only my career and school but my  large international social structure and the folks who were a part of it; not including HIM. FYI - My Well Traveled Passport Was and and Still Is in my purse, Always. Options are a very important point in any mans mind, so make sure your man knows You Have SOME, Always.

men seem to have a greater respect for a fair exchange. I was told as a young woman that "Fair Exchange is No Robbery". what exactly does that mean ? to me it means being able to receive exactly what I give; without a second consideration. that's what a firm and transparent relationship feels like - Fair Exchange. it's not always fair in each persons eyes, but by the time karma sorts it out, it's fair.

For Us, Finally, after we had a major break up after He Cheated. I said  Fuck Off. Then He saw the error in his ways and decided to play the game fairly. No Ladies Don't put yourself out there for a ZERO. You Can All Find Your Hero, just listen to what Steve is saying and Ignore Beyaki and her fake asspads and yakibrain.

Steve says Ladies Start Thinking Like a Man; Don't give away your benefits before 90 days. not even ford motor company does that. Sweet Minty Jesus, Have Mercy Steve. those are some great words there brother.

Believe Me if you are Real and Stick to Your principals; Someone Wonderful Will Put a Ring On It,

Nuts and Honeys Anybody ?

Wow Shaunie You Got Some Bad Azz Shoes On Girlll..

I wonder who she thinks believes that crap about her and Shaq.. uhh ruhhh Shaunie, too late baby we already know the real deal. now you need to up your producer game so you can walk the walk; since you talkin the talk. just be sure that you keep wearin them shoes girl, cause they make sure everybody knows You are LARGE and Totally in charge, lil momma.

Our Advice - Shaunie, Do It Big Girlfriend ; cause you got a golden key and the combination to the safe.

Then We Have Mr. Snoop Dogg Dizzle talkin bout who runs the house.

Yes Barbara we know he means it - cause he's talking bout it everywhere. This is the Re-Marriage picture. apparently the single life wasn't all that for the dogg.. like most puppys he ran back to the dog house as quickly as he could get that doggy door back open.

That Was A Very Smart Move Big Doggy,

Congrats to Snoop on his accomplishments of recent - being named CEO of Priority Records. this should be a dream job for Snoop since he will be working with the industry he helped to create. maybe some of that new fresh music will slowly begin to creep out of the west.

We also send a Big Hey MON ! to The Dizzle on his Football league and the Upcoming Championships. we have watched his teams grow from pee wee football, to a school league. that type of family activity provides a safe healthy alternative to the kids in the area; who choose not to engage in violence as an outlet.

As you can see, Once Again - Tiger seems to be the hottest topic on most of the recent talk shows - Hmmm, Wonder Why ? some are saying Tiger is on Suicide Watch; because Elin has her legal team doing a forensic analysis, of their finances and his earnings. heaven forbid they don't add up.

lets just say, he betta call tyrone..

In Keeping with the holiday spirit, we wrap up with another of those resistent stars, who is still not sure who she really is - Mariah Carey.

Yes the Incredible Mimi was on George Lopez recently and she took the opportunity to spout off about her DNA Issues. apparently she sees' the fact that her dad's dna makes her Black, as an issue that she's just learning how to accept. however she has lived her life as the daughter of an Irish Woman.

Mimi says that "In America post slavery if you have one drop of Black Blood you are Black." but in some other places in the world, she is apparently Not Black. Mimi why you refuse to take the DNA test Baby Girl.. especially after talking all this "multiethnicmumbojumbo"..

Huh ?

Please somebody check her mouthwash, and call the clinic. it seems that old glitter is resurfacing. Mimi You are just Too Damn Magical for us.

Seriously Mimi Honey, Don't you realize that you can't emotionally appeal Your Dna by country baby ?

Only Mimi, Only Mimi,

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