Welcome to the February 4, 2011 edition of The 2011 Black History Month Blog Carnival

Welcome to the February 4, 2011 edition of The 2011 Black History Month Blog Carnival

Black History

Romeo Vitelli presents The "Separate But Equal" War posted at Providentia, saying, "An important chapter in desegregation"

BadGalsRadio presents The Scott Sisters freed from prison 1/7/11 – SUCCESS ! posted at BadGalsRadio - RootsRock since 99',
saying, "The Scott Sisters freed from prison 1/7/11 – SUCCESS !
Jamie and Gladys Are Finally Released ! As activists and journalists; we
stood with the sisters and dedicated our voice to seeing them free.
That day was a glorious day and we hope that the sisters are given the
assistance they need to get the transplant completed; and to get their
lives back on track."

Katie Tellefson presents 40 Blogs for the Cajun Enthusiast posted at Accredited MBA, saying, "With Cajun culture and history comes amazing music and even more amazing food. It isn’t every day that you get to nosh on gumbo or dance to the sounds of a fast-paced accordion, but with these Cajun
enthusiast blogs, you’ll gain a better understanding of the culture and
appreciate its quirks."

Black Thought

Chief Adviser Blog presents What Makes You Black? posted at Blunt Advice.

Black Folks

Jacqueline Thomas presents R.I.P. Mr. Charles E. Johnson posted at People You Need to Know Magazine, saying, "It was only on three occasions that I had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Charles E. Johnson, but I instantly knew that he was a man of vision and purpose. In his quiet strength, he was able to rally the country around his goal of putting Auburn Avenue in the spotlight. His ability to bring thousands of people from around the country to participate in his dream was utterly amazing. There is no doubt that his spirit will live on."

Lauren Obst presents To all of you maladjusted people out there... posted at The Very Hungry Bookworm.

TheSUSS presents Co’mon Jermaine.. Who do you think is using your brain to figure this out ? posted at BadGalsRadio - RootsRock since 99',
saying, "Co’mon Jermaine.. Who do you think is using your brain to
figure this out ? Today We Ask – Does Jermaine Remember His Kids ? It’s
Monday so today we’re going to Hang with the Ever Entertaining
Jacksons. Today we draft our first member of the 2011 ID10T Team -It’s
Superstar Jermaine Jackson It Seems Jermaine Jackson’s passport expired
while he was overseas, and he cannot renew it.

Black Women

Jacqueline Thomas presents Get to Know Cathy Irby Durant posted at People You Need to Know Magazine, saying, "“From the time I was 9 years old, I knew I wanted to work in entertainment,” says Cathy Irby Durant. Not only is Cathy working in entertainment, she has managed to produce and direct over 200 video and film productions, including nearly 100 music videos airing on BET and MTV, documentaries, TV commercials and programs."

Black Education

Katie Davis presents Delete the N-word from Huck Finn? posted at Brain Burps About Books, saying, "Should the N-word be taken out of Huck Finn? Dr. Alan Gribben talks about why he changed the words of Mark Twain, the greatest American writer."

Ed Overton presents Top 50 Archeologist Bloggers posted at Engineering Degree Online.

Lori Kobelan presents Masters in Teaching » Top 50 Blogs for Anthropologists posted at Masters in Teaching.

SBF's Ignore Beyaki, Watch This Quick

It's the First Sunday and today we're talking about what's goin on around us. When Black Women Talk - Black Men Should Listen more sincerely if they want a Mate; instead of a date. Black Women in their 20's, 30's and some even older are experiencing the worst side of being professional, and having standards - Being ALONE.

Recently Comic and Commentator Steve Harvey wrote a book on relationships. According to those in the know, like our friend Bria, much of what he says is true. Steve has a point about Beautiful Blackwomen. SBL's need to look UP instead of Across. too often we look at the pool we swim in; instead of the whole beach. Black Ladies take it from me, there are men out there who will treat you right, and Marry You. you just need to stop looking in the wrong places. Open Up Your Options and Toss That list. it's not going to help you. Open Yourself Up for More Possiblities. set some guidelines and get in the game.

Steve says that men want to know what you WILL Accept; and expect - rather than what you want. that really cuts through the butter. imagine if everywoman knew this at 13 years old. talk about a drastically different world.

Steve Harvey's Relationship Rules

How can it even be realistic that White Women get married at Twice the Rate of Black Women; especially Professional Black Women ?

Trust Me Sista Becky (apologies to My White Ladies, but Becky is the name most folks use commonly to associate with you all - no offense intended), that's why you get the shifty eye in the checkout line when you step up there with your  frozen pizza and rollers in your hair; and your muffintop rollin out; next to the Sister who has taken all she has to try to make herself look like a million dollar designer doll; just to pick up some Skim Milk.

Sisters, it's a very ugly feeling knowing you are beautiful and smart, yet a man will choose Becky instead of you; because he thinks you are another Beyaki.  Men You Need To Think A Little More before you Dismiss a Beautiful Black Woman; or to think that you can corral us in a herd, like horses waiting for a ride. too many of us are bound to the past pain from parental mistakes, early relationship crisis and the drag of day to day stress. time can heal if you allow it to act as a lesson, instead of embittering your heart. Open up your doors to new and fresh possibilities. accept that change and variety, are the spices of life.

Believe me, after two marriages; I ought to know. this marriage is built on more years of dating then slowly deciding. when he felt it was time to get married, He Popped the question. I had to decide if I was ready to make that commitment. he knew that he wanted a good women. I had doubts that he could and would make that same commitment towards me. I turned him down the first few times he asked. sure I had options, and I made sure he recognized it, Everyday.

my options were not only my career and school but my  large international social structure and the folks who were a part of it; not including HIM. FYI - My Well Traveled Passport Was and and Still Is in my purse, Always. Options are a very important point in any mans mind, so make sure your man knows You Have SOME, Always.

men seem to have a greater respect for a fair exchange. I was told as a young woman that "Fair Exchange is No Robbery". what exactly does that mean ? to me it means being able to receive exactly what I give; without a second consideration. that's what a firm and transparent relationship feels like - Fair Exchange. it's not always fair in each persons eyes, but by the time karma sorts it out, it's fair.

For Us, Finally, after we had a major break up after He Cheated. I said  Fuck Off. Then He saw the error in his ways and decided to play the game fairly. No Ladies Don't put yourself out there for a ZERO. You Can All Find Your Hero, just listen to what Steve is saying and Ignore Beyaki and her fake asspads and yakibrain.

Steve says Ladies Start Thinking Like a Man; Don't give away your benefits before 90 days. not even ford motor company does that. Sweet Minty Jesus, Have Mercy Steve. those are some great words there brother.

Believe Me if you are Real and Stick to Your principals; Someone Wonderful Will Put a Ring On It,